Yeah, that sounds like Japan alright
So YungJamez went back to Shinjuku recently... with Fred the Bodyguard and Tyler Oliveira! It went about like you would expect, but not a ton of fireworks. They did some good investigative work that hopefully gets the ball rolling with authorities. Those Kurds though!
I don't know if this is a real success or just a small party trick.Tokyo Enmusubi is an official AI-powered matchmaking app launched by the Tokyo Metropolitan Government in September 2024 to address Japan’s declining birthrate and low marriage rates. The app, part of the broader "TOKYO Futari Story" initiative, uses artificial intelligence to match users based on shared values, assessed through a 110-question diagnostic test, rather than just physical appearance or superficial traits.
Key Features:
- Eligibility: Open to single individuals aged 18 or older who live, work, or study in Tokyo.
- Registration: Requires a 11,000 yen fee (approximately $77 USD), valid for two years, to ensure serious intent.
- Verification: Users must submit photo ID, proof of single status, income documentation, and complete a mandatory online interview for identity verification.
- Matching Process: AI suggests compatible partners based on values and personality. Users can also search for matches based on desired traits.
- Safety & Privacy: Meetings can be arranged through the app without exchanging contact details. Online consultations with staff are available.
- Progression Flow: The app guides users from initial introduction → in-person meeting → friendship → serious relationship → marriage.
Impact & Results:
- As of September 2025, over 27,000 people had registered.
- Nearly 300 couples have been matched since launch.
- 94 couples have married, with many reporting quick connections due to high value compatibility.
- A 2024 survey found that 25% of married people met their partner via a matchmaking app—making it the most common way to meet a spouse in Japan.
Why It Stands Out:
The app leverages Japan’s cultural concept of enmusubi—meaning “tying of fates”—a term associated with Shinto shrines like Izumo Taisha and Tokyo Daijingu, which are traditionally visited for love and marriage blessings. The government-backed nature of the app increases trust compared to private dating platforms, especially in a society wary of scams.
Note: The app is not a guaranteed matchmaker, but a tool designed to help users take the first step toward marriage, with a focus on long-term compatibility and relationship sustainability.
Japan's economic decline has been slow but steady over the last several decades. Its GDP per capita in the late 1980s was the highest in the world behind only Switzerland, but today they are at #39 behind the Czech Republic, S. Korea and just ahead of Portugal and Greece. Their economic outlook today is even worse, hard times ahead.
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Gay marriage in Japan is not allowed.How big is the whole LGBT thing in Japan? I know there's thesee subcultures in manga/anime that focuses on fetishizing homosexual romance but it seems like that's seen more as a niche rather than something that's actively promoted in mainstream media like you see in the west.
The hard times have been coming for 30 years. Are things harder than during their bubble years? Of course. But by all metrics, the Japanese are doing just fine and in many ways are doing far better than most other western countries.
- Single income families are the norm.
- Food is cheap and healthy.
- Sports and fitness are celebrated at all ages.
- Crime is non existent.
- Investment in infrastructure is constant.
- Immigration is heavily checked and monitored.
- Society puts Japan as its top priority.
- Absolutely zero tolerance for LGBT agendas in the school system.
- Cultural pressure to be married and with children before 25 (extra heavy pressure on women).
Does this sound like the west prior to the 2000s? Exactly. It's what it feels like in Japan.
It is certainly not without issues, but the issues at hand are pretty manageable when the above metrics are the norm.
But what percentage of Japanese are married with children at or before 25 today?
I see lots of domestic LGBT content on NHK's English channel, is that not also the case on the main Japanese networks?
I agree with the main thought though, Japanese society is more able to weather a continued economic stagnation.
^A lot of the content from NHK English is dubbed over footage from the Japanese flagship network. I don't watch it that often, but it's on one of my local PBS channels and one time they had a long feature about a wannabe homo pole dancer dude...
Japan is a bit better than S Korea wrt feministic/careerist young women who opt to defer marriage but that is still a thing in Japan today, no?
The rate in the US of childless women over 50 is below 20%, so it seems to have been an ongoing problem in Japan decades ago.
Why the low birth rates then? Most Jaoabese women I have met in Australia do not want kids although its obviously a biased sample since a Japanese girl living abroad is by definition not traditional or mainstream.- Cultural pressure to be married and with children before 25 (extra heavy pressure on women).
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Why the low birth rates then? Most Jaoabese women I have met in Australia do not want kids although its obviously a biased sample since a Japanese girl living abroad is by definition not traditional or mainstream.