Money and Resources in Courtship, Dating and Marriage

[It_Is_My_Time]

To be fair nobody was girlfriend or wife hunting then. We just wanted to do the title of Roosh’s book - “Bang.” In fact committed monogamy - what I want now - id call “whipped” or “beta” 15 years ago. So yeah at the time it was wicked cool.

Wanting to “Bang” made us neglectful of the more fertile grounds out there and put time and energy into non fertile pursuits. None of us had the church’s teachings on sex and marriage at the time. Had the boomers given better advice then the extremes of “UsE A CoNdOm AlWaYs” and “Ewwwww sex” things may have been different. We didn’t have the church to warn us about the consequences in body, mind, and spirit of “Bang”

Correct, yes. I was sort of beyond it by then, and I joined more to learn about what to expect in Europe. I was more doing this back in the 1990's or early 2000's, before I realized how wrong it was. I have no desire to do this, or live this way any longer. I just want to live in a place that is normal, or basically what I experienced as a kid in the USA in the 1980's, find a good woman, have a family and enjoy being a dad. But this is sadly asking for a lot in this day and age.

But yes, Roosh's old forum was all about it and many here went through what I went through, and I am so happy that it appears everyone here has moved beyond this way of living and thinking.