Matchmaking Thread

Samseau said:
Australia,

You can't be surprised if no one wants to introduce you to their daughter when you're an agnostic and this is a Christian forum.
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Again like the other people commenting on this thread you did not read the opening post. The thread is not about me. Its a thread for all members. if someone has a daughter, sister, friend etc then they can write about it in the thread and other members (not me) can send private messages to inquire about it. How many times do I have to state that the thread isn't about me?

Guys on the forum complain about threads like the destruction of modern women because they say its just a complaining/blackpilling thread and then when I start a thread like this which is taking action to help others people still aren't happy.
 
Australia, many of your points are objectively correct. Certainly your evaluation of Western women compared to Eastern European women.

But by the way you approach this topic, I agree with Lawrence's conclusions. You simultaneously idolize and detest women. Does it bring you any joy in life to fixate on this?

Christ is the only solution brother. If we don't worship Him, we all end up worshiping something else.

It is good you tried praying. But in order to feel the presence of God, I would suggest you try to temper your passions as well. Not just lust for women, but also gluttony, judging other people, anger... Clean out all those distractions. Contemplate on the beauty and order of the created world around you. Allow yourself to feel your own conscience, and the universal moral laws that bind us all. If you truly seek God, you will find Him.
 
My early history with Christianity I think subconsciously left a bad early impression of Christianity on me. I spent 4 years at a Christian high school (despite not being Christian) because in Australia the Christian schools receive partial funding from the church so they are cheaper than comparable private schools and for this reason many non Christians attended.

The first year at the school the Headmaster was an kind elderly man. The headmaster was a "brother". The second year at the school the headmaster retired and we got a new headmaster (also a "brother") who was a bad man. He was very unjust and played favorites with students and I was punished many times unfairly because I was not liked by him despite my good grades. Also just the way the school was run in general wasn't really setting a good example for what Christianity was about. I got to see first hand how hypocritical many Christians were.
 
starlight said:
Good luck.

I wouldn't marry my oldest daughter to most of you guys. No offense.
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This thread is a good example again of people ganging up on someone who doesn't deserve it. Why create arguments for arguments sake? That's what the initial 6+ posts and the back and forth did.

@analyst_green is right. We need to get our priorities straight. What is difficult is not necessarily to understand the will of God, but how that might be seen in our lives with all the time He has given us here, basically what to do with all the talent or knowledge, or whatever gifts he has given us. I also don't think people are very aware at all how clowny the world really is in modernity. We take things for granted that are not very natural or realistic historically. Without getting into details to piss people off, I'll just leave it at that.

In other news, a good family friend said, "Hey, I've got a woman/girl for you" - Guess her age? It gets to be funny after some time. The reality is that we have simping of lots of men, lots of low quality men, but also crowding by many people in the society, and now even crowding for many older cat lady types. While I don't need to blame anyone for that necessarily, it's a reality. Is it on me that I say "No" to those possibilities? Yes. But if you look at it from my point of view, you'll see that in general for some reason the woman is the one to always gain, and I generally don't get anything in the trade. That's a recipe for what will continue, which is men just checking out because the baseline for reality for so many people, and certainly women, is closer to fantasy than not.
 
Blade Runner said:
This thread is a good example again of people ganging up on someone who doesn't deserve it. Why create arguments for arguments sake? That's what the initial 6+ posts and the back and forth did.
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Pointing out when certain forum members keep doing the same identical annoying thing over and over and over again (such as creating multiple threads on essentially the same topic) it's not "ganging up". In reality it's actually good forum maintenance to prevent the same problems from occurring again.

A quick glance at the multiple page threads on the same topic that OP has started in the past, and how those discussions quickly evolved into garbage discussions with no point, will quickly clue you up to what stupid direction this thread is already headed into.
 
Caduceus said:
A quick glance at the multiple page threads on the same topic that OP has started in the past, and how those discussions evolved into garbage discussions will quickly clue you up to what stupid direction this thread is already headed into.
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Again, it devolved because someone wanted to derail it with a silly back and forth that gained nothing for anyone. It's the same thing with the other thread we established, which is, why are you so insecure that if you see a thread (that you might not like) you feel that you must post on it? Just go to other threads where you add something, and ignore what you think are "silly" threads. "Problem" solved.
 
Australia Sucks said:
Again like the other people commenting on this thread you did not read the opening post. The thread is not about me. Its a thread for all members. if someone has a daughter, sister, friend etc then they can write about it in the thread and other members (not me) can send private messages to inquire about it. How many times do I have to state that the thread isn't about me?

Guys on the forum complain about threads like the destruction of modern women because they say its just a complaining/blackpilling thread and then when I start a thread like this which is taking action to help others people still aren't happy.
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Blade Runner said:
Again, it devolved because someone wanted to derail it with a silly back and forth that gained nothing for anyone. It's the same thing with the other thread we established, which is, why are you so insecure that if you see a thread (that you might not like) you feel that you must post on it? Just go to other threads where you add something, and ignore what you think are "silly" threads. "Problem" solved.
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If anyone else had started this thread I probably wouldn't have had such an instant reaction, but reputation/past posting history matters.
 
Caduceus said:
If anyone else had started this thread I probably wouldn't have had such an instant reaction, but reputation/past posting history matters.
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Australia Sucks said:
I don’t understand why haters spend so much time and energy posting on this thread. I believe in the traditional globe model and think the thread is pointless so I simply don’t post in the thread. I don’t come in the thread to continually berate people who believe in the silly alternative models.
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^best post

If a thread is dumb, don’t waste time in it.
 
Shaquilleoatmeal said:
The fact that you as a women believe you decide who to “marry” your daughter to is just proof we live in a clown world.
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That's just my opinion and the "marry" off is a saying not meant to be taken literally, obviously...
Shaquilleoatmeal said:
The father alone should decide.
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Marriage is a Sacrament and not something that someone can be forced into. I suggest reading this article.
Shaquilleoatmeal said:
Focus on your husband not your potential daughters husband.
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Why not both? :D
 
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