On the one hand, we have Proverbs telling us about how charm and beauty is deceptive and fleeting.
But on the other hand, we still want is best for your progeny and that means looking at genetic fitness which physical beauty is usually correlated with.
A random video popped on my Youtube sidebar this morning and I was drawn by it from seeing the two girls featured on the preview image.
This got me a bit thinking because if you look at the girls, I wouldn't say they are knockouts but I still felt drawn just because of the way they presented themselves. They were looking feminine with their dresses and the way their hair and makeup were done which while it did accentuate their looks, it didn't do so in a overly sensual or conquettish manner like you would see with big IG influencer girls. They also had a nice smile as opposed to sticking their tongues out, trying to make "bedroom eyes" or otherwise having some overly loud and sensual facial expression.
It made me think a bit about if as men who are visual and do pay attention to a woman's appearance if we could cultivate our taste where instead of focusing on how "hot" a girl is we can instead learn to appreciate how she radiates feminine energy and just having class. I don't think it's realistic for guys to just not care about appearances at all but is it possible for us to refine our tastes to instead prefer something that is more healthy and would lead to us going after the right women?
But on the other hand, we still want is best for your progeny and that means looking at genetic fitness which physical beauty is usually correlated with.
A random video popped on my Youtube sidebar this morning and I was drawn by it from seeing the two girls featured on the preview image.
This got me a bit thinking because if you look at the girls, I wouldn't say they are knockouts but I still felt drawn just because of the way they presented themselves. They were looking feminine with their dresses and the way their hair and makeup were done which while it did accentuate their looks, it didn't do so in a overly sensual or conquettish manner like you would see with big IG influencer girls. They also had a nice smile as opposed to sticking their tongues out, trying to make "bedroom eyes" or otherwise having some overly loud and sensual facial expression.
It made me think a bit about if as men who are visual and do pay attention to a woman's appearance if we could cultivate our taste where instead of focusing on how "hot" a girl is we can instead learn to appreciate how she radiates feminine energy and just having class. I don't think it's realistic for guys to just not care about appearances at all but is it possible for us to refine our tastes to instead prefer something that is more healthy and would lead to us going after the right women?