@It_Is_My_Time I’m curious on how all these women are hitting on you. Not trying to pick on you, but perhaps you are seeing things that aren’t there (I have friends or acquaintances who are like that - “did you see how that barista smiled when she gave me my coffee?? She totally wants me!”) or maybe it’s real.
Can you describe what happened the last 2-3 times you felt a 20 something girl was into you?
I have a lot of things going for me, that many guys don't. That doesn't mean I don't understand what other guys are going through in this disgusting capitalist satanic tower of Babel society. I'm not the only one experiencing it though, as I have talked with other guys about the new okay age gap in the USA. The economy sucks, young men have no money and they are low T from the disgusting food we eat. It isn't their fault, but women their age don't find broke guys with low T to be attractive. Women find guys with money and confidence attractive, they simply do, there is no changing this.
I am in my late 40's, I no longer have to work, due to working so many 7 day weeks in a row and saving my pennies up. This + my diet + genetics = I am very confident and I look a lot younger than I am. I am lucky to be tall. At the same time, in my 20's, due to low confidence, I struggled with women just like many others here describe.
It happens at my social side gig, and it happens quite often. I think because I am not interested in women at all, due to other things I am working on, that gets them more interested. Every other guy is either gawking at them or their friends or other women that walk by, and I watch the guys all check out her body. I don't do that, so that helps as well, women really notice these things and they don't find this behavior to be attractive either.
They come up, talk to me, flirt with me, ask if I have a GF, and why not. I explain to them my situation right now and they say things like "well, when you are free, let me know" or just say "oh, gotcha". It is a huge compliment. A few I tell my age, and they simply don't care, other than being shocked, they seem more interested as they can start to calculate that I probably have money.
It feels great, it is nice to know I have options, but I right now have more important things I am focusing on. I hope I don't end up waiting too long, but I am willing to risk it to fully escape this disgusting rat race capitalist system.
Thank you for asking, I do appreciate it.