This is following the western/new/Gregorian calendar. For those following the eastern/old/Julian calendar the Dormition Fast is from 14-28 August.Thank you for reminding everyone! I'll be doing this one.
For those who don't know, the Dormition fast has a fish feast on the 6th:
It is a pity that the entire church doesnt all share the same calendar, I personally think the old one makes more sense but Im with the Greeks so I must respect that and follow it.The fast started today for those of us on the Julian calendar.
This is the most "excited" I've been for a fast in over a year. Definitely the most determined I've been to take one seriously, in a while. I've had an exceptionally hard time with my spiritual life this year, and I think a lot of it is that I've been very mentally distracted and all over the place, having trouble focusing on God or on spiritual things. I'm hoping that this fast helps me get reoriented spiritually.
The first few years, it felt like Dormition always fell during some family vacation or other thing going on, so I never had much mental bandwidth for it. But this year my in-laws who live with us are gone for an extended period, family life feels like it's drowning me, and I need spiritual help more than I have in a long time. In other words, it's a great chance to remember the Mother of God and how I need her help.
I guess it depends where in the world you live, here in South Africa there is nothing happening in August, its the last month of winter, its a windy month and we all just waiting for spring to arrive, its not a holiday month either, the Easter and Christmas months for me are during the holidays, many holidays during easter and Christmas and the weather is nice and people usually go on holidays, I find it interesting that August is so festive in USA what do you guys usually do?I often find this fast difficult. It seems like it falls at a time of year when everyone plans events, BBQs and so forth. This year I find some difficult family stuff coming to a head. Your prayers, brothers.
Holy Mother of God save us
I guess it depends where in the world you live, here in South Africa there is nothing happening in August, its the last month of winter, its a windy month and we all just waiting for spring to arrive, its not a holiday month either, the Easter and Christmas months for me are during the holidays, many holidays during easter and Christmas and the weather is nice and people usually go on holidays, I find it interesting that August is so festive in USA what do you guys usually do?I often find this fast difficult. It seems like it falls at a time of year when everyone plans events, BBQs and so forth. This year I find some difficult family stuff coming to a head. Your prayers, brothers.
Holy Mother of God save us
I often find this fast difficult. It seems like it falls at a time of year when everyone plans events, BBQs and so forth. This year I find some difficult family stuff coming to a head. Your prayers, brothers.
Holy Mother of God save us
Generally speaking, if you're offered food during a fast then it should be considered a gift from God and you should take the offer graciously.
Oh boy, Iv have turned down a lot of food, I dont like telling people that Im fasting but when we are invited to a family lunch and someone pour you a glass of wine and dishes meat on your plate I have had to politely speak up and say Im fasting which I hate doing, but maybe what you saying here makes more sense just keep quite and thank God inwardly for the food and not offend the host?Generally speaking, if you're offered food during a fast then it should be considered a gift from God and you should take the offer graciously.
Oh boy, Iv have turned down a lot of food, I dont like telling people that Im fasting but when we are invited to a family lunch and someone pour you a glass of wine and dishes meat on your plate I have had to politely speak up and say Im fasting which I hate doing, but maybe what you saying here makes more sense just keep quite and thank God inwardly for the food and not offend the host?
It makes sense, Im think what good will it do if I tell people Im fasting and then reject their food, it kind of makes me looks prideful, but if I keep quite and eat their food and they find out later then I think its better for them the unbeliever, nice imputYes, correct, there are a lot of scriptural reasons why not to turn down food on a fasting day, and a lot of saints who say the same thing. I learned this from my Bishop.
I used to make the same mistake, thinking I needed to keep fast no matter what, but turns out it's not true. The idea behind a fast is to mimic John or Jesus in the desert; you take what comes before you as provided by the Lord. So you don't seek out good foods and engage in self-denial, but if something appears before you then you take the gift from God graciously. If it is a good Neighbor who gives you the food, just remember that God created your Neighbors and they serve God whether they know it or not.
Imagine if the man who was helped by the Good Samaritan said, "Can't take your help, I'm fasting."?