Texting back and forth with Cute Latina Secretary

GuitarWind21

GuitarWind21

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Just had a chat with her tonight, the topic of sports, coffee runs and her job arised. What would you say and reply to spicen this conversation? Just wondering. I’d like to take her out on a few dates for fun, if I can pull that off, I’d be one content man.


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She's being kinda dismissive even knocking you down a bit while you're trying to engage, just answering your questions and not engaging herself. I don't know about you but my time is limited and I'm too old to be playing around and trying to break through that if it gets broken through at all, I know my value as a man and I was never a "game" guy so take what I say with that in mind. I would go with something like this eventually:


"Should we keep playing 21 questions or how about I take you to dinner?"


You'll get your answer as to whether you're wasting your time or not pretty quick, honestly sounds to me like she's enjoying the high of a guy being obviously interested in her and not much else. Either that or she's just not interested at all and being polite.
 
FrancisK said:
She's being kinda dismissive even knocking you down a bit while you're trying to engage, just answering your questions and not engaging herself. I don't know about you but my time is limited and I'm too old to be playing around and trying to break through that if it gets broken through at all, I know my value as a man and I was never a "game" guy so take what I say with that in mind. I would go with something like this eventually:


"Should we keep playing 21 questions or how about I take you to dinner?"


You'll get your answer as to whether you're wasting your time or not pretty quick, honestly sounds to me like she's enjoying the high of a guy being obviously interested in her and not much else. Either that or she's just not interested at all and being polite.
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Lol I’ve got a better idea than taking her to dinner. I want to invite her to a bbq to meet my dude friends and brothers. I think that would make things go on my favor, I would still have a shot at her and have access to her other cute female friends and social circle. I’m not playing the field or trying to get in her pants, this is a form of socializing as most of the guys I know are good dudes and gentlemen. I take this an opportunity to get to know one another in a controlled setting.
 
GuitarWind21 said:
Lol I’ve got a better idea than taking her to dinner. I want to invite her to a bbq to meet my dude friends and brothers. I think that would make things go on my favor, I would still have a shot at her and have access to her other cute female friends and social circle. I’m not playing the field or trying to get in her pants, this is a form of socializing as most of the guys I know are good dudes and gentlemen. I take this an opportunity to get to know one another in a controlled setting.
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Do what you want to do brother nothing ventured nothing gained but that might be pushing it if you ask me, she barely wants to interact with you from what it looks like. Could just be her shield everyone is hesitant to give too much these days which is understandable but I don't think the way to break through that is to try and dig in that deep. For you that's a controlled setting for her it's the exact opposite, even if she does show up it's not going to go how you think because you're going to have to babysit her and even if you didn't have intentions on pushing it's going to come off naturally as you pushing because of that.

But again if that's what you want to do then do it, if that's what you want and she doesn't want that then you'll know to not waste your time.
 
Get2choppaaa said:
Do you regularly talk with this gal and is she bubbly when you talk?

Her messages are pretty one sided, and you're doing all the asking, which usually means she's being nice enough to not upset you by being direct and saying she's not interested.

If there's rapport then ask her out. If not move on.
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Yes, I regularly text her once in a while, she laughs at my jokes and upbeat from the start, but when I text her and engage her in a philosophical conversation about her career, jobs or something a bit more on the aficionado side of things she starts sending mixed messages lol.
I should save those topics for an ombre at pub or something, because this is the type of stuff that gets rather disconnected than get some emotional high from some sort of teasing or interesting storytelling most dudes try to do.
 
GuitarWind21 said:
Yes, I regularly text her once in a while, she laughs at my jokes and upbeat from the start, but when I text her and engage her in a philosophical conversation about her career, jobs or something a bit more on the aficionado side of things she starts sending mixed messages lol.
I should save those topics for an ombre at pub or something, because this is the type of stuff that gets rather disconnected than get some emotional high from some sort of teasing or interesting storytelling most dudes try to do.
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BIg dog you gotta keep it light and fun.

No need to discuss Voltaire when she's more interested in you making her laugh.

Always remember that with women or anyone for that matter, the more you illicit positive emotions and feeling the more they are going to want to be engaged with you.

Don't over think it, use text messages for logistics to set up dates, calls for discussions when necessary... But in general in person in a positive environment is what your want to be doing .
 
I can't see all the messages but in the image that is working I think she comes across as lukewarm. She's answering you which is a good thing, but she's not matching your interest with questions of her own about you. She might not be into that level of conversation prior to seeing whether you can make her laugh and have fun.

I'd say drop the incessant questioning about what she's up to, and try to get some humour across. If she has fun and laughs when she's talking to you then she will be engaged. The "what do you like to do on a daily basis" stuff has some part to play in conversation but I'd say its going to dry up quick if thats all it is.

Edit: also pulling some jokes is a good way to gauge interest because if she is intetested she'll be in stiches over the most flat out retarded and unfunny jokes. If she reacts coldly to jokes then you might as well move on
 
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