Why Im thinking of planning on raising a family overseas

GuitarWind21

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Im thinking of planning on raising a family overseas in case I meet a nice, feminine, traditional woman who I can see fit to have a family with. Here are the benefits I can see on doing that.

- The cultural atmosphere is just better and livelier

- The mortage house payments in America freakin sucks and can sometimes be riddiculous

- Less toxic food, good beaches, nice deserts and parks

- better relationships, less narcissistic and vain relationships as oppose to The West

- You live an adventurous lifestyle, a back and forth going back to the states and back abroad every 6-8 months for me. Going back to America just to visit for a vacation and sight seeing is actually pleasant occasion as oppose to working there year round.

- More affordable College education


These are just some of the things I can think of. Some places I have in mind of living this lifestyle are : The Philippines, Thailand, Morocco, Dubai, Turkey, Indonesia and Malaysia.
 
Im thinking of planning on raising a family overseas in case I meet a nice, feminine, traditional woman who I can see fit to have a family with. Here are the benefits I can see on doing that.

- The cultural atmosphere is just better and livelier

- The mortage house payments in America freakin sucks and can sometimes be riddiculous

- Less toxic food, good beaches, nice deserts and parks

- better relationships, less narcissistic and vain relationships as oppose to The West

- You live an adventurous lifestyle, a back and forth going back to the states and back abroad every 6-8 months for me. Going back to America just to visit for a vacation and sight seeing is actually pleasant occasion as oppose to working there year round.

- More affordable College education


These are just some of the things I can think of. Some places I have in mind of living this lifestyle are : The Philippines, Thailand, Morocco, Dubai, Turkey, Indonesia and Malaysia.
If you want to split your time between two countries you actually need to develop an attachment to a different country. Your list basically says "another country" without rhythm or reason. Not sure why you're convinced the "culture" is better elsewhere. If you think someone's culture is so great than start watching their tv shows.
 
Im thinking of planning on raising a family overseas in case I meet a nice, feminine, traditional woman who I can see fit to have a family with. Here are the benefits I can see on doing that.

- The cultural atmosphere is just better and livelier

- The mortage house payments in America freakin sucks and can sometimes be riddiculous

- Less toxic food, good beaches, nice deserts and parks

- better relationships, less narcissistic and vain relationships as oppose to The West

- You live an adventurous lifestyle, a back and forth going back to the states and back abroad every 6-8 months for me. Going back to America just to visit for a vacation and sight seeing is actually pleasant occasion as oppose to working there year round.

- More affordable College education


These are just some of the things I can think of. Some places I have in mind of living this lifestyle are : The Philippines, Thailand, Morocco, Dubai, Turkey, Indonesia and Malaysia.
I am 100% with you. I am just bidding my time until I can escape the west. Most things about the west suck. The only good thing really remaining about the west is if you want to be an employee your income will be higher than non western countries. Other than that there really isn't much left in the west for young men these days.
 
If you want to split your time between two countries you actually need to develop an attachment to a different country. Your list basically says "another country" without rhythm or reason. Not sure why you're convinced the "culture" is better elsewhere. If you think someone's culture is so great than start watching their tv shows.

TV shows are geared towards producing dopamine for the masses. I don't see how that realistically represents a country's culture.

Even China, which bans a lot of degenerate stuff, has all of those weird shows they consider funny.

Anyway, I do feel as though saying "elsewhere is better" is simply too broad and could set guys up for disappointment.

These are just some of the things I can think of. Some places I have in mind of living this lifestyle are : The Philippines, Thailand, Morocco, Dubai, Turkey, Indonesia and Malaysia.

You included multiple Muslim countries. That would be an issue for most guys on this forum. Would your plan be to convert to Islam once you find a wife there?
 
TV shows are geared towards producing dopamine for the masses. I don't see how that realistically represents a country's culture.

Even China, which bans a lot of degenerate stuff, has all of those weird shows they consider funny.

Anyway, I do feel as though saying "elsewhere is better" is simply too broad and could set guys up for disappointment.

I don't know what OP is thinking, but this "other cultures are better" sentiment is the modern variation of the noble savage. The noble savage doesn't exist anymore, if he ever did. For a long time, the Anglosphere has enjoyed a semi-assimilating migration of these passive, modest, easy-going non-whites. On the other hand, it appears some Europeans just went 0 to jihadi hell to try to out-virtue multicultural America. Point being, as long as you avoid blacks or muslims, you might even have a positive impression of multiculturalism.

What we have are whites, oblivious to the nature of real [red pill] dynamics, who think brown people are "nice" and "simple", who eat the scraps and say thank you. Therefore, their countries must be the same. This is heavily propagated by people traveling as well. There are a lot of white people who think the third world is going to duplicate this particular racial dynamic they experienced domestically. For a time, this was even true to a degree. Some countries gave white people preferential treatment due to the status of the west, but not anymore. There's a lot of simplicity in poverty, but no one wants to be poor. Good to remember that. So all we can really hope for in our travels is the friendliness and hospitality of the browns to make us stay.

It is actually amazing how retarded some whites are. White people believe that it's wrong to be racist but then deny these browns their ethnic identity. Despite these browns droning on for decades now about how they want to turn everything brown, because that's the only way they can have self-esteem, you still have white people that can't let go of this delusion that all brown people are going to morph into an Oreo, and we'll all be a happy family. White on the inside, black on the outside. Of course, a white person would never say it like that. Whites believe in the virtuous default setting of the human. We want to believe that without the corruption of modernity, the whole world would look like the Shire from LOTR. As we can see, some of us are convinced the Shire is everywhere but here.

Well, it turns out brown people do have an identity and sometimes even lack one.

There are countries that don't have a unique culture and are easily molded. For example, there are a lot of Jamaican imitators. There seems to be a Caribbean sphere where all the young people do some "island" version of American ghettos. These types of countries are going to be heavily Westernized if not already. They're either going to be Reddit tier liberal or some ignorant ghetto.

There are countries that do have their own unique culture. For me, this can be checked by the strength of their cinema, television and perhaps music. Your assertion that TV doesn't matter is flawed in my opinion. It matters a lot. If it's watchable, then the culture probably has endurance. Maybe it doesn't give you a realistic version of the life of a local taxi driver, but it confirms the existence of a unique culture, and it also gives you a glimpse into it. Bollywood, Korean K-pop, Jap anime, etc. There are many examples and not so well-known ones.

I didn't mean to sound condescending. If you gravitate towards a certain culture, you should immerse yourself in it. That will only help you live there. If you don't want to watch their TV because that's boring, then you're not going to like living there. You're not going to fall back on the locals catering to your needs because they're "nice" while you do your own thing. You either embrace their quirks or walk around like a fish out of water.

What a lot of us white people end up discovering is that our [white] culture is actually pretty good. Cream of the crop, perhaps. White people may be the true hobbits from LOTR. I'm not discouraging being a passport bro, I support it but there's no reason to sugar coat it. Traveling is fun in itself. Why do I need to dress it up with BS utopian promises? Are we women that need promises of a sweet life?
 
There are countries that do have their own unique culture. For me, this can be checked by the strength of their cinema, television and perhaps music. Your assertion that TV doesn't matter is flawed in my opinion. It matters a lot. If it's watchable, then the culture probably has endurance. Maybe it doesn't give you a realistic version of the life of a local taxi driver, but it confirms the existence of a unique culture, and it also gives you a glimpse into it. Bollywood, Korean K-pop, Jap anime, etc. There are many examples and not so well-known ones.

Thanks for your quality response and for elaborating what you meant. I agree with your overall sentiment. There definitely is truth to what you say about TV as a whole. In my experience, though, there is more value in watching what the locals would consider the most important movies and series, as opposed to generally watching TV. I say that because Television can be very similar across nations.

In addition, in some places, like the Balkans or South America, music and songs play a bigger role than TV when it comes to cultural immersion and understanding the overall psyche. Even in Germany there are certain songs that only the real Germans sing, while most integrated foreigners just feel somewhat uncomfortable singing them, because they're considered "too German". Those who truly consider themselves German have no issue singing along. After all, those songs aren't even patriotic.

That said, I agree that TV can provide great insight into a certain culture's view on love, humor, family etc. So, yes, you're absolutely right.

You either embrace their quirks or walk around like a fish out of water.

My impression is that this is most people's approach to moving abroad. Very few people have genuine interest in actually immersing themselves in the culture. Westerners that move abroad, even within the west like from England to Spain or Sweden to Italy, will generally not learn the local language, will mainly try to hang out with other expats and will work remotely. They're obviously still a net positive, unlike refugees who also refuse to learn the language, hardly spend time with the locals, but are insane freeloaders and a huge overall burden to society in the short, mid and long term.
 
What a lot of us white people end up discovering is that our [white] culture is actually pretty good. Cream of the crop, perhaps.
White culture is good in countries that still have some semblance of tradition remaining and aren’t completely paralysed by the woke mind virus and unlimited immigration e.g. countries such as Poland, Hungary, etc are still good.

The anglosphere is cooked and beyond redemption at this point. If you are going to live in a cucked woke dystopia like Australia or England or Canada you may as well rather live in Thailand or Ecuador, etc (if you financially have the means) where at least cost of living is cheap and you can get a younger girlfriend.
 
Would your plan be to convert to Islam once you find a wife there?
I don't think there would be any other option. in an islamic country, unless you're a very loaded tourist and remain within the confines of the areas where tourists are allowed in, you need to forcefully reinvent yourself as a muslim and make sure you make a darn convincing job of it. your very survival depends on it
 
you need to forcefully reinvent yourself as a muslim and make sure you make a darn convincing job of it. your very survival depends on it
Plenty of Muslim countries where Christians, Jews atheists etc have been living side by side with Muslim’s for hundreds of years. Lebanon has around 40% Christians. In Iran most people are not religious and aside from that there are minorities groups of Jews, minority groups of Christian Armenians etc. In Egypt 10% of the population are Christian. There are 250,000 Christians in Jordan, etc
 
The anglosphere is cooked and beyond redemption at this point. If you are going to live in a cucked woke dystopia like Australia or England or Canada you may as well rather live in Thailand or Ecuador, etc (if you financially have the means) where at least cost of living is cheap and you can get a younger girlfriend.
Yes, this is especially apparent to any red blooded American male who understands that even his own country is lacking greatly.

I think what gets lost in the words, and I have remind people of this frequently on this site, which is weird to me, is that the nexus for all of this is a search for femininity and family. Notice OP's first sentence. Unless the place is brutal, he'll suffer other tradeoffs, because there aren't feminine women where he is from, or at least he can get, or both. This is the modern dilemma, particularly when you are successful and have the money, because there isn't really much else in the west other than more $, some freedom yes, distraction and entertainment. Older people usually won't understand this, and older women won't either, because at this point they can't identify with it, or in the case with older women, their future is over already so they just hope they can find some $ and freedom from discomfort.
 
TV shows are geared towards producing dopamine for the masses. I don't see how that realistically represents a country's culture.

Even China, which bans a lot of degenerate stuff, has all of those weird shows they consider funny.

Anyway, I do feel as though saying "elsewhere is better" is simply too broad and could set guys up for disappointment.



You included multiple Muslim countries. That would be an issue for most guys on this forum. Would your plan be to convert to Islam once you find a wife there?

Lol nah I'm a Christian, I just have a fascination with desert living and I heard it was beautiful there. I heard a Rent for an apartment could be 300$ a month to live comfortably, that's what got me interested.
 
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