Again, people chose secularism en masse since the 1970s, and we saw this motion as people taking the church less seriously even if they went, that's the key point. It really boils down to the biological reality that even if there aren't as many 7s to go around, let's say, you can get reasonable pairs as long as the woman is young. If she isn't, as we've seen, it destroys the whole point of family since guys have a hard line on that, and if they are forced to be second or fourteenth choices (even if they decide to get married as beta bux) as a reproductive strategy, it still doesn't work out because of the woman and society.