Can you be friends with leftists?

stadtaffe

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I'm reviving an old RVF thread by the same title, although wish it to be more general than that thread was. If anyone is routinely querying a mirror of the old RVF site feel free to post the original post in the thread so we can see what he had to say.

I'm keeping the old title out of tradition although there probably are better ways of wording the question.

I wanted the discussion to be more broad and include for example following topics :
  • can you work with leftists
  • can you do business with leftists
  • can you date or marry a leftist
  • can you be friends with gays or lesbians
  • can you be friends with blacks
The answer to many of these questions is probably you could but you probably should not, life is short.

In the West we live in an age of forced multiculturalism. In particular in the workplace there is a compulsion to not discriminate and focus on the work and leave politics, race or colour totally out of it. When I was an employee it took me a large effort to keep all political thoughts inside over the course of the working day. Of course not talking about politics in the workplace does not apply so strongly to leftists as it does to conservatives.

I have had a few gay or black male acquaintances over the years although have found over the years these friendships can't become very profound.

In recent times I had a business meeting which had gone mainly well, but at one point he just had to drop a comment about his undying support for Ukraine and how it will inevitably defeat Russia in the war. I really wish he had not said that, I was just trying to evaluate the merits of a business and the prospects of working together but he really detonated it and I've tried a few times to evaluate it in a balanced way but just can't anymore.

I was a listener and fan of the Gary Collins podcast The Simple Life. (RIP 1970-2022)
He served in the military I believe and also was an armed bodyguard to some senior US politicians, and also on trips in dangerous countries before he became a podcaster and fan of living simply and off the grid. Reason I mention him is that he had a black and white view - you're either part of the problem or you're part of the solution. All of these public personalities in the conservative space receive a certain amount of leftist hate.

Anyway, I'm not sure if any of you struggle with this, share any thoughts and experiences here.
 
Depends on the leftist. The woke retards that whine about white men can screw off. They are not enjoyable at all to be around. I'm a lot more lenient on the economic side of leftist politics, even when it's completely stupid.

But even a lot of conservatives would think I'm too right-wing, especially boomers. So you get used to lots of people getting triggered.
 
I dont know if they would want to be friends with me though they might be WhiteChristianPhobic😂

Sure I guess you could have a very casual light friendship with the people listed, some of us might even having family members who fall under this list, some of us might work along side these people and have no choice but to engage with them, if you are a genuine honest open Christian and they know you are one chances are they might actually shy away from you or it might spark a good conversation that might lead to their future conversion. But its not really gonna be possible for you to be best buddies with these people its just not gonna work, it will be more of an aquaintance friendship.
 
I had a discussion with a leftist relative over Thanksgiving, and while we did not discuss politics directly, she pretty much insinuated the country was about to go off the cliff because Orange Man Bad is back.

She coaches her kids and tells them that they can’t have reasonable discussions with republicans or Christians because those groups are so hateful. I came away from the conversation realizing that she and her family live in a completely different universe. Until their reality shatters and they are forced to see it, there’s no point in discussing politics with them now.
 
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