My impression from Warsaw at least is that people are very consumerist. The DNA is still more feminine or the attitude but also there's a vacuousness to it all as well. It's just basically they still value their appearance and femininity. So on a superficial level it's better than West growing visible hair and becoming slugs. But there is a lack of values to it all which leads to yeah accessory foreign boyfriends
The Poland Thread
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The man who caused us to add a fire extinguisher to our emoji map keeps on winning.
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Polish women unlike Balkans women will happily date foreigners in general. That’s why Poland is a great place for foreign men to look for a woman as it’s free from the trauma of mass immigration that degrades a country but at the same time local women are open minded enough to date you as a foreigner.
Foreigners are fine in a country at an individual level as long they are there only in small numbers.
The thing is Polish people are pragmatic they are not racist and having nothing against foreigners at an individual level they just wisely don’t want mass immigration in Poland.
Polish women unlike Balkans women will happily date foreigners in general. That’s why Poland is a great place for foreign men to look for a woman as it’s free from the trauma of mass immigration that degrades a country but at the same time local women are open minded enough to date you as a foreigner.
Foreigners are fine in a country at an individual level as long they are there only in small numbers.
I've travelled in the Balkans and been in a relationship and various dates with women there and lived in Poland and not dated a Polish one so I'm not sure what to make of your statement. I suppose I agree in theory but from my own experience, I found dating easier in Balkan countries.
Also, the Polish pragmatism you speak of can sometimes seem a bit like a kind of stubborn clinging to life denying dogmas. Delusion isn't all bad. It's OK to have hopes and dreams sometimes even if they're unlikely.
I haven’t been to Poland so I can’t say for sure but I’ve met plenty of Polish women in Australia and other countries with foreign boyfriends. But out of the Balkans people I saw whether in the Balkans or in other countries it was exceedingly rare to see one dating somebody from another race. I mean I went on a number of dates in with Albanian and Macedonian women when I visited the Balkans but ultimately I got nowhere because they couldn’t accept the fact (or got shamed for it by others) that I was not the same ethnicity as them.
Why do you think you could not manage to date any Polish women?
I was very stressed a lot of times by my job and I was in a long distance relationship basically the entire time I was in Poland.
I also observed an almost autistic Germanic kind of vibe to women there in the sense of being very rigid thinkers in my experience
But just cos most women won't date foreigners in Balkans doesn't mean none
will. Did you consider that being there for a month as a tourist might have influenced serious dating prospects in this region?
I also don't think it's easy for foreigners in Poland and the reason why certain ethnicities very obviously non Polish might actually do better is because this appeals more to a particular type of 'independent' modern Polish women